OK boyos and grils this is whats going down. Appreciate the help by the way. Back to the game after a long time. Finally find a girl that i fancy. She is lovely as hell. Pretty, laughs at my jokes. We click together pretty well. However, she is not into dating and flirting generally. So we went to the movies (pew pew Star Wars n stuff). We have a blast. Serotonine wasted from all the laughing. I take her out to cake. We talk. I ask her: Oi would you like to go a date with me.
She: I dont want to go a date.
I: wtf, y u no?
She: ok lets go. (Her face wasn't the happiest when she replied)\
Ok. So here is my question:
1) Tell her that I am not really into girls who just wanna hang out and find somebody else to occupy my atention. (thsu saving myself from dissapointment because there is a strong chance she is not into relationships)
2) Be patient, wait it out, waste emotions/time/money so in the end I may be with this special little flower.
Most Helpful Girl
Number two would be a clear answer0
Most Helpful Guy
You've been out of the action and more and more, people reject traditional 'dating.' I think it's a good thing, with all the fixed and archaic sex roles people have to adopt in that game.
Yes, now people want to meet in a more natural way, by 'hanging out' in groups or working together in clubs, on projects.
I was sort of a pioneer of this myself, gave up 'dating' by 16...
Try it, my man, you'll find it a lot less burdensome and more rewarding than the old 'dating game'!0