I recently started dating this girl about 2 months ago. She's 28 and I'm 25. Now I'm just wondering is this a weird age gap? I've never dated an older woman. I really like here and I don't want our age gap to effect our future, what are the motives of dating a younger guy?
Most Helpful Girl
I have chatted up a guy in the club that turned out to be 20 (I am 26 but together we look like I am 20 and he's 26 so it never appears visually obvious or strange if we're hanging out).
We've had several dates and I can tell that he's rather insecure around me and sometimes doesn't know how to act, especially in person.
I dress differently (classier) than girls his age, I make more money than him, the topics I talk about are different, my music taste is waaaaay different and so are my hobbies. I think this intimidates him sometimes, but he sticks around because he's most likely physically attracted nonetheless.
But via text, he gets all cheeky and I can tell that he falls into his usual boyish ways with all that teasing, haha even goes as far as making fun of my age the more comfortable he feels with me >_>. He dared to kiss me twice, but that's it.
As to why older women would date a younger guy. Mind you, we haven't been sexual/intimate and the kisses were rather innocent and I honestly start to develop more platonically 'buddy' feelings for him, but the reason I did start dating him at the beginning was the first impression I got. In most cases, if a woman likes a guy and he happens to be younger, the number becomes secondary. Older women don't date BECAUSE he is young. He just HAPPENS to be young and we kinda formed a liking for him regardless, so no matter what age, we'd probably still like him and want to stick around if we enjoy his company.
As for my youngster, I liked the way he coyly flashed a smile from across the dance floor, with a bottle of water in his hand. In a crowded, sweaty and loud place like that, he stood out with his smile and the different vibes. He looked like an interesting person to me, I wanted to get to know him even after he revealed his age.0
Most Helpful Guy
At those ages, the age gap is nothing to worry about. :)0