I am a 21 year old female and regardless of the multiple times I've been complimented, I always feel less of a person knowing I have never been in a fulfilling relationship, along with never having a single boyfriend. Is this normal? I hate feeling this way. I am obsessed with the fact that I've never had a boyfriend. Am I that ugly?
Most Helpful Guy
More and more people these days are settling themselves before involving someone else up into their mid thirties. There is nothing wrong with it at all. Society is stressing self improvement and happiness before involving someone else these days, which is good. For guys or girls, men or women, it is difficult to be attractive to someone when you need them to be the sole source of your happiness. My dating and relationship success became more successful the more happy I became as a single person with myself. It doesn't work as well the other way around. I used to think I was abnormal being single and unwanted and thought I would be happier in life with a relationship. I made it the single focus of my life and that tended to push more people away rather than draw them in.1
Most Helpful Girl
Read the book The Rules0