Just like the title says I never get any girls that I chase due to me screwing up, them not liking me/ being taken, and just bad luck. But I have a bunch of girls that I don't like who I know like me. Don't say the "you like what you can't have" line because I've heard it a million times and it's not the case. Has anyone else had this happen?
Maybe you act different around girls you don't like, and you do things that would make them like you... but don't act the same way around girls you do like. Sometimes I'm more comfortable around guys I don't like or wouldn't date than I am guys I would date just out of self consciousness.
been there! I have no idea why is that!!! I hate it. If someone knows the answer I would be glad to hear it.
Stop chasing & do you and most importantly stay genuine girls don't like that phony stuff we see right through it
The girls you chase just don't find you attractive
What Guys Said 6
I have this problem too. It's really frustrating. It makes me feel like I'm cursed to be miserable or something. It makes me feel like I have no say in my own life. It makes me feel like no amount of self-improvement will help, no amount of trying to be interesting, no amount of confidence will help because the problem is that I'm fundamentally inferior and I can't beat it, I can't break free of my story. It makes me feel like the problem is that I'm fundamentally less than the alpha males, and I'll never get to defeat them. It makes me feel like I'll never be able to defeat "not good enough". I really hate the feeling that I am restricted to dating someone that I won't even have any real interest in, except that they are all I can get. I worry that I'll never get to experience being with a woman that truly makes me feel alive.
Give the less desirable girls your attention and word will spread that you're a cool guy. Ask yourself if you desire a girl just for the catch value or because you REALLY like someone without ego/image being involved? If you want a trophy wife, be sure to make your first million SOON. Otherwise, get realistic.