As much as I'd like to help, there is way too much I can assume and way too little of valuable information.
For instance, she could simply be playing you due to her actions. Some women love yanking men around.
She could like you yet flaked on the date because she might have felt that you lied to her when you told her that you already made plans (some women feel like men will stop everything in their lives to seek them out).
She could be trying to figure out what she truly wants from you or going back and forth on her feelings. (I'm guilty. I was doing this with one guy and eventually decided that I didn't want him since we weren't compatible... though that could be argued).
In all honesty, I'd leave this girl or have a sit down conversation at a coffee shop to clear everything up.
she's a typical women juggling few guys at the same time
cut her off or get her to see you and just fuck her and leave her
you dont want to start anything serious from this kindve beginning.
i think you can still fuck her so do it and dump her... shell be trouble because she's too selfish and confused... these types will choose the path of least resistance and end up giving herself to flattery but shell leave that guy too for someone challenging...
she doesn't know herself. get what you want if you want and leave.
i can be wrong but what she's doing isn't a good sign... she's got some other dudes around.
Sorry but I feel she is in a relationship with someone else and just like the attention you are giving her. If she was really into you she would make a effort to see you. My experience when I like a guy and he ask me out I would not flake unless it a really good reason... Don't play games all it does is cause drama... Just move on... I know easier said than done... There are lots of women just waiting to be treated with love and respect... good luck...
honestly when i first read this is sounded to me like she was just stringing you along. Like she was into it, but then figured she could do better, but then when she couldn't she went back to you to keep you as an option to her. So now she's probably just looking for other guys but keeping you as a sure back up.. I'd ditch out or be careful at least
If you're still interested in her try asking her out again & see what she does. If she does the same thing or you are no longer interested in her then just move on & be acquaintances or platonic friends, if you want to be.
Sounds like she likes you and is a bit frustrated by your lack of appropriate response. Also sounds like you’re having a lot of online contact and very little in real life. Work on that. Enough strong opinion? :P
To be honest man I think she was either taken, or talking to other guys while messaging and talking to you. The way she acted and cancel the dates made it seem like that. She also could be an attention seeker just to boost her ego and self esteem. She could had just been using you just to past time.