This guy I'm dating is constantly asking me for my nude.
I said no over and over but he doesn't give up.
What should I do? I never want my pics to go online though...
I kind of feel like sending one without my face but do you guys think it's a good idea?
- Yes go for it12% (5)24% (13)19% (18)Vote
- No don't send88% (36)76% (42)81% (78)Vote
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No. Two main reasons.
First, it's illegal, since you're underage. It'll be considered child pornography, and you could both be screwed. Him in particular.
Second, if you give in after already saying no, you set a precedent in his mind that if he doesn't like an answer of yours, he can just keep pestering you to get you to change it. It could make him pushy to get his way in all sorts of other situations. He is telling you that he doesn't care about how you feel about it, he doesn't care about you or your thoughts, he only wants his way, and he will keep pushing for his way until he gets it. That is not behaviour you want to reward.2