I know i sound pathetic but He keeps slapping me, pulling my hair basically beating me up he says it's my fault I really don't know what I'm doing wrong I do everything he says I obey him.
soo what I can I do?
Most Helpful Guy
You leave him because he's a piece of shit. Sorry that what I'm about to say sounds harsh, but I'm going to tell the truth. You sound like a damn doormat that's just letting him step all over you. If you have to obey everything he does and he still beats you then you don't need him. Once you realize that YOU come first in YOUR life, then the answer is clear. If a relationship is meant to benefit both people involved then why the hell are you staying with him if he is the only one benefitting? Consider the fact that there are A TON of guys in the world that would treat you better. Don't stick with him out of fear because trust me your life will be much worse if you stay with him instead of kicking his ass to the curb. YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE, NOT HIM! YOU get to choose who YOU want to share YOUR life with. Notice the emphasis I'm putting on you, because it's your godamn life. Not some guy that likes to take out all of the anger he has in his pathetic life on you. I know it's weird taking advice from some 18 year old kid, but I've seen this happen to people, and trust me, if you don't dump his ass then you WILL regret staying in your current situation because it WILL ruin both you and your life. Nothing changes and life will keep you on your knees unless you get up, take action, and make a change. Good luck.0
Most Helpful Girl
Breal up with him! I know you don't won't to hear this, but that is abuse. It is not you. Do not try and fix yourself when he is the problem. It feels like you are what's wrong, but that's what he wants you to think.
Here are some websites you can go to for facts and hotlines for domestic abuse.
or you can just google "domestic abuse"
I know i'm young, but I know that this is wrong. If you want some more websites to talk to someone or one for more information message me. I'm also open if you want someone to talk to.0