I would never consider either of those guys, to answer your question. I would reject them both and remain single.
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Between these 2 options, you'll definitely get more success as a douchy arrogant asshole than a pathetic loser with no confidence. Type #2, never gets anything but, Type #1 will get "insecure girls", "bad girls", "immature girls"... or whatever the hell girls that go for assholes are described.
I find that most people are dumb and don't recognize a douche/bullshitter when they see one. So in general life, you may be more successful that way. But to those who have an inch of brain, you'll come off as a guy to away from. Yet, to most of the society it's OK, cause I find them dumb on that matter, they just don't see past the front window of the store...
Why does it have to be just those two options? Here's an idea: Stop trying to game the system (girls), and be honest, and be yourself. If you have confidence problems, here's a tip: Imagine you are a kid again, without hormones, and just talk to people like a human being rather than a sex machine. Been there. Trust me, you can do it.
good question man, i mean id go with douchy asshole, there is a way to be confident and shit without being a dick, and thats to just like be assertive, dont wanna be like overly humble tho, so yeah there is like a middle or whatever it is to you