So do you ever have a freind you seem to be hitting it off with, then you learn that she has many guy freinds she is "feeling out" for relationship stuff. It makes me feel like I'm just a number on a list, or that I'm not worth her full attention (even as a potential suitor) I often hear the excuse that you have to keep your options open to make sure you have the highest chance of finding the right person but that just feels like an excuse to walk all over people's feelings just because it makes your goals easier to attain.
And to all the women who read this just know that doing this to someone hurts, it's not the rejection but the realization that your just being led on and that to her you are only worth a fraction of her time or attention.
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Well she doesn't really owe you anything, and you don't have to focus your attention on just her unless she gave you a very clear indicator of interest.
That said, yes it is annoying, and I feel it's compounded by girls being very indecisive at best. Also, if you recognise that she's doing this for attention, then just ignore her. Easy enough.2
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