I'm posting this as anonymous because a few of you know me from here.
But just I don't know
I'm tired of trying with guys
I've been alone my whole life
And right now I just had a realisation that I should just give up
Tired of wanting something I can't have
Tired of crying after seeing cute couples
Tired of feeling like I've been left out of something
So just deciding to say I'm done with love all together
I've been alone my whole life so i can't crave what I've never had isn't it?
This is a topic that literally depresses me to an extreme degree
So be mindful of that
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I totally understand what you're going through. I get the feeling of being "left out of something" sometimes. The only difference is that I haven't been "alone" my whole life but, my last relationship was the kind of relationship I would only hope upon people that I really really can't stand.
Know something though, it's normal for you to feel that way, Look at this picture below:
This is Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and it's showing you that what you're feeling is very normal since it's for the most part one of mankind's psychological needs and we are like this because it's a driving force for us to seek a mate and continue breeding. "Giving up" is the natural way of thinking when it comes to fighting this urge when not met with huge success but, can you say that when a guy is genuinely interested in you you'll turn him down because you "gave up"? I doubt it. So don't just simply give up but rather direct your focus somewhere else, towards your career, hobbies, interests... etc. And trust me, many many men will mature and realize that dating is more than getting the girl with "the biggest booty", "the sexiest camel-toe"... etc, and many many girls will realize that dating is more than getting the guy with "the popularity", "the sexiest arms"... etc, because I'm very sure that many of these couples you saw -assuming that you looked at many couples of your age group- were together for the reasons I stated above or even just to avoid the experience of what you're feeling right now. I like to think that things will get better in time and I would like you to think the same.
P. S I got this letter from a man I've never seen before and he told me to give this to the Anonymous girl between the ages of 18 and 24. I think that's you so here it is,