I've never really had a girlfriend before, I've dated and hooked up with girls but its never gone further. Anyway for the past 2 years I have tried really hard to find a girlfriend, I've talked to 5 different women in this two year period and of these 5 only one sort of became my girlfriend for 1 monthish (I wouldn't consider her my gf) and then after 1 month she broke up with me because she wasn't over her ex (maybe that just ment she didn't like me enough idk)
Anyway 5 women in 2 years, I've heard some guys said they talk to like 40 women in one year and usually like a dozen of those could become their girlfriend. I've heard other guys say like 1 or 2 but those guys usually have some other issues.
Anyway what do you think?
Most Helpful Girl
I think many people do stay single for quite some time. It's very difficult to date and takes patience. There has always been at least a 2 year gap between my relationships where I'm single and many of the guys I date or try to talk to hardly ever result in anything serious. Dating is very difficult.1
Most Helpful Guy
Five in two years? You should increase that to at least 5 women a month. Seriously. You need to meet a lot of women before you settle on one. The summer before I met my wife I had 17 first dates and no second dates. Another thing I realized is that when I was younger I was overlooking some great girls for stupid reasons.3