So a friend of mine was in a relationship and after almost one year she decided to take a break from her boyfriend because she wasn't sure about her feelings anymore... it has been 4 months and the guy is still waiting for her to make up her mind... she says that one part of her wants him and is jealous if she sees girls approaching him but other part wants her to be alone , no relationships... i dont know what advice to give her.. what should she do?
Most Helpful Guy
I don't know what advice you should give her, but tell her boyfriend to quit being a sap and act like he has some dignity left and dump her. A break for 4 mo? Get the f*ck outta here? And this guy is waiting for her? I'd be gone the minute I heard "we need to take a break." Damn sure wouldn't be waiting around for her for 4 mo. Let's also be real. You and I know she isn't going back to him. Even if she did she'd make him miserable because she actually has really low interest in him. She'd make him pu*ssywhipped, nag him to death, complain incessantly, and disrespect him because she has such low interest in him in reality. Tell them both to end it and move on.3
Most Helpful Girl
She's not into it and is using him. The guy is a sap - waiting 4 months for her to decide whether she wants something with him or not. It's silly, immature stuff. If she's outgrown him and wants to be alone then she should be strong enough to do that. It sounds to me like she's selfish and mainly concerned about what she is feeling. She's probably enjoying the power she has over him by keeping him waiting. Tell them both to move on and do other things with their lives.5