In the past I have dated women that only wanted to kiss and be intimate but not have sex. I felt like I was being used for intimacy. Then I dated women that didn't want to have sex until we were in a relationship, which ended badly because then we figured out that we had almost no sexual chemistry. It was difficult to end things at that point because I was attached and I ended up getting hurt badly but then women complain that men use them for sex. To that I say women use men for intimacy.
- Relationship first then sexVote A
- Sex first then relationshipVote B