I have a hard time dating men, i keep seeing them as something not good enough for me, its like they dont have enough ''status'' money'' or good looks, so i pick a fight with them to get them off my back and search for someone else, i am also attracted to older men > 35+. Am i just a bitch and am i not even that good looking to aim those type of men? this is me http://s1112.photobucket.com/user/uwamin/library/?sort=3&page=1
Most Helpful Guy
"its like they dont have enough ''status'' money'' or good looks, so i pick a fight with them to get them off my back and search for someone else"
The usual female discontent in a nutshell. Unfortunately, most women think this way. It's ok to have standards but when those standards keep going up, and you keep wanting more that's where the problem relies.
A good example is when girls make the infamous "shit tests", a guy passes them and the girl steps it up to make it impossible for the guy to "please" her or whatever. Honestly, I wouldn't want to be with a person like you. Then again, this is something you have to stop regardless of anything, once you are over 30/35 years old as your options of men go down. Good luck0
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly, yes, maybe. But also maybe not. Because let's look at it this way: You want a man that can provide, with whom you feel safe and taken care of, who you are attracted to, who is experienced in life and can even help you grow as a person. I see nothing wrong with that because I too feel that way. I am attracted to older men too because I just feel they can provide so much more stability and make me feel safer. Aim for what you want. For someone who makes you feel good about yourself and who makes you happy. That is what matters after all, isn't it?1