I don't know about other guys but it makes absolutely no difference to me how soon the woman wants to have sex. If she seems to be deliberately holding back because she's worried about making a bad impression actually that's not good, it shows she's being artificial.
If I'm getting it on the first date, and I'm actually approaching it as a date not a hook up, then that too soon. Sends red flags to me. In my experience 4 dates seems to be normal but it's entirely up to you. If you're not sure talk about it, honesty is always best.
Unfortunately, there isn’t an exact or definite answer for this question. Reason being is that there are multiple underlying factors that determine whether or not you will be taken seriously if or when you have sexual intercourse… for example, my boyfriend and I had sex just a few days after we met, before we were steady… surprisingly enough, the next day he asked me if I would be his girlfriend and I said yes… we have been together for nearly two years now… but I have had friends that would wait several months to have sex and then be dumped or taken lightly right after… it all depends on whom you’re with, I suppose… wish I could have been of more help.
Honestly would've been less, but the flight wasn't cancelled for sure right away. (Backstory: We met at the gate, flight was cancelled, he was cute, we decided to split a room overnight to save $$. Long distance love ensued.)
Now in year 14 of a marriage that's more fulfilling than I ever would have thought possible. Considering it's a marriage of 2 people who both swore, growing up, that they'd never get married.
I had sex with my boyfriend as a kinda one night stand, we then started dating and over a year later we are still together. Sex makes no difference, it depends on the people and if they're compatible :)
I think you should wait until you know for sure he respects you, listens to you, and cares for you. Be certain he's single and isn't messing with other females. When he makes plans he keeps them. You've met family and friends. You be in public together during the day as well as some nights before 10. You see that he's trying and with that being said you're comfortable around him. Once you've established ALL of this feel free to pick a day to share your goods. There is no set date for when to first have sex, not the 3rd date 10th date nor 3 months. Do not put your whole heart in it at all, wait until you know for sure he loves you (FIRST ) and that he shows it. Then you're good to go.