I am 21 and have never dated or been in a relationship. Is this necessarily my fault?

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  • No
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And you are? I'm a GirlI'm a Guy

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I'm 24 and I've never been in a relationship.

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    • How does it make you feel?

    • Feel lonely and undesired usually. Other times I feel like I'm disciplining myself for not wasting time and energy into women who don't deserve it. It's a coin toss.

Most Helpful Girl

  • It's not like people 'need' to have been in a relationship by a certain age so no, it's not your fault directly. However, your demeanor being unapproachable or cold may be partially to blame. Very few manage to get into a real relationship without putting in a little extra effort.

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What Guys Said 10

  • No its not your fault. But make sure you are being available and not stand offish. Try initiating contact to a guy sometime. in this day and age that's not a thing to be frowned on at all. Plus it shows confidence :)

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  • Well, I don't know. I got this girl's number just like you and asked her out. over like 2 weeks. Everything seemed perfectly fine. Guess what happened, she canceled the date at the last second on me and never gave a reason. Im taking that since she never been on a date she got scared and canceled, but I don't know. If you have guys ask you out and you do something like I said then it's your fault.

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    • Either the girl was speaking to multiple guys at a time and chose to keep her options open. Or she was too scared as you mentioned. Lost interest? Girls are complicated.

  • Not necessarily. If you've had other priorities then it's not your fault, you've just been busy with other things.

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  • ... yeah.

    You are responsible for your life. If you're 21 and haven't dated... that's almost definitely some combination of you don't approach or make yourself approachable in places with men, and/or you don't make yourself attractive.

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  • Well, it's not the whole world's fault.

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  • it is depending on your character and your looks if it is your mistake so I can't tell for sure

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  • How its going on life your the cave?

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  • Not sure what you mean by your fault but you also provided no details.

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  • No it's not your fault, of course not... but I also have never dated or been in a relationship, and it's probably my fault, because I'm too shy :(

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  • No. Male/female relationships were never meant to be this way... feminist society creates unnatural conditions

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What Girls Said 3

  • Why do you reject guys? I know I rejected a lot because I never wanted to be in a relationship. Now I gives a guy a chance. But now, I am not happy. They have done so many things. In the passed. Had sex, live with someone. So I am like oh wow.

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    • Oh so you feel behind?

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    • Lol sorry!
      What I am trying to say. If you wait, to start dating. Later when you are 22,23,25 + Years old. You can get a guy but most of the guys would have kids with someone else from there passed ex.

    • I seeee alright

  • Yes because if you really wanted to, you'd approach more men.

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  • No. I'm 22 and it's my decision to be single until I achieve my career goals.

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