I plan on flirting and talking to a girl more. But I'm waiting to ask her out until after I lose weight.
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I guess it depends on how long he took to ask me out, and how much flirting he was doing.
If a guy was flirting with me but then never made a big move for a long time, I would start to think that maybe he's not interested in me, and maybe he's not flirting and this is just how he talks to everyone.
Also if I can clearly tell he's flirting because he's forward about it, but then didn't ask me out, I might wonder if he's just trying to sleep with me, or if he flirts with a lot of girls and never asks them out.
Another possibility is, if I knew he was flirting with only me, and he was really sweet and just seemed scared to ask me out, I might make the move and ask him out (I would never guess that he was waiting until he lost weight. I would just assume he was nervous).
So yeah, I think it's okay to wait but make sure that you keep flirting with her, and make it clear that you're treating her differently than you're treating other girls.1