My boyfriend and I are from different countries. The 2 of January I will go home for 6 months and I wanted to see my boyfriend this weekend but he told me that is better to wait 2 more days until i don't have my period because "It will be sad if we can't have sex the last time that we see each other"
We had a fight because I felt like he is just using me for sex. Am i overreacting or Am i right to feel this way?
That's just a really unhealthy attitude he has about your period. Even if he doesn't want to have sex with you while you're on your period he shouldn't refuse to see you. (And there's nothing wrong with having sex with a girl while she's on her period if she's okay with it. It's not a big deal.) So I just don't understand where he's coming from on this. Periods are a normal part of life.
I don't think you're overreacting at all. Can you really see yourself becoming long-term with a guy who doesn't want to see you one last time before you leave for 6 months because you 'can't have sex'? Or who is not able to handle something like you being on your period, which is out of your control and something you'll continue to get on the regular for ht most-part for a few more decades?
Wow! I've never heard of a guy reacting like THAT. And why would he think that it would be absolutely necessary to have sex when you see each other? // If he is from some culture where a man is to avoid a woman during her period that would be weird also, as it would be an outdated way of thinking. // Just based on the above information, I'd say move on and tell him to take a hike. LOL...
Well I would say your boyfriend is being pretty shallow.. and maybe you should move on from this guy.. it is a part of life.. sounds to me like this guy you are with does not even have one... or anything even close to one
You know you CAN have sex on your period... perhaps tell him that? haha
But honestly, with the information given, I'm more on your side with this one... that seems like a stupid reason not to see each other. Shouldn't he want to spend as much time with you as he can when he has the opportunity? If not, then yeah, I'd be suspicious about whether he actually cares about you.
No you're not overreacting. He's blatantly said that he doesn't want to see you because you have your period so that means you can't have sex. That's really shallow of him. He probably didn't mean to be so blunt, but the truth clearly found its way out. You deserve better than that
I'm sorry to have to say this, but he is just having a good time, if you know what I mean. If he wasn't he wouldn't refuse to see you just because you don't want to have sex with him. In my opinion, you should break up with him.
I think your TOTALLY RIGHT ! Kind of a douche bag... sorry but he should absolutely want to see you before your gone away no matter what the issue is. Time together before long distance should be on his mind not your cycle.