I met a very shy guy. We went on a date a few days later. We hit it off well despite both being nervous. He asked me to text him the next day. We texted on and off over the next week. Met up again. I was feeling a little insercure (due to past history) and wanted to know If he was just a player. I was curious but got my words wrong. I asked what he was after. He said he wasn't looking for a serious relationship (because as he told me before) he might be moving back to his hometown. So then I said so you just want something casual. He didn't know what I meant.. so I said you just want Sex, he said no. So then I said... you wanna take things slow and see where they go? He said yes. I was happy with that. I left it a couple of days and texted him asking how his weekend was going. No reply. I then messaged him "Hey. I feel I need to apologize for the way I was on Thursday and all the out there questions. I've been hurt in the past that has me build a wall up and i was just wanting to clear up if you were just after one thing. I am truly sorry if I offended you x I am happy to take things slow... I think that's the best way to start any relationship. I promise I'm worth the time If you want to give me another chance. Just please let me know now yes or no... am I wasting my time even just trying to get to know you? So three weeks went by. He was still looking at every one of my snap stories in this time. But maintained radio silence, he finally texted me a week ago out of the blue "upto?" It was in the evening but I had already fallen asleep quite early. I texted back the next morning "how you doin ;P" no reply. Suddenly after seeing some snaps of me with a mutual friend... male. He has now deleted me off snapchat. Has he got the wrong idea and read too much into the mutual friend situation.. or has he just lost interest. Is there anything I can text him that will fix this or at least give him something to think about that won't have me come off needy, crazy or desperate.
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His nose was put out of joint after you confronted him about what he wanted; you need to go slow and steady with a reserved person rather than charging about like a bull in a china shop. Secondly he seems to think you're with this guy and figures that there's no point in keeping in contact with you because you're with someone else, what you told him was a load of baloney and he's probably moving back to his home town.
I think this situation is dead in the water if I'm honest. You can try texting him but don't expect a reply.0
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