A few months ago I was standing in a doorway and this guy walked by, we locked eyes and it was like 'bam, fireworks'. Some kind of weird connection. We both smiled at each other then he walked off. After that I started to go out of my way to see if I could catch him again and it was the same each time we'd see each other, sparks flying, eyes lit up thingy. He's not my type at all and I have a serious boyfriend but I cannot get this guy out of my mind. I constantly think about him. I'm wondering if we are supposed to meet? I'm nervous about approaching him because I'm in a relashionship. Anyone else ever experience something like this?
Most Helpful Guy
If you believe in love at first sight, you need to define what you mean by "love." When I think of love, it is something that happens when I know someone and appreciate who they are, their strengths and weaknesses, their abilities and needs, their hopes and desires. How can you love someone that you don't know?
What you can feel at first sight is lust and I think that is what is confused with love. Once you get to know the object of your desire, of course, feelings of love may develop, but probably not.0
Most Helpful Girl
The first time I ever looked in my husband's eyes, I knew he had the one quality I needed in a man.
Maybe it could be called love at first sight, maybe not, but it was definitely "I knew at first sight that this man has what I've been dreaming about, since I was ten years old, and that I probably won't ever meet anyone else like him".
Whatever words you want to use for it, my body was in love with him within a few hours, my mind within a few more, and my heart by the next day.
We've been married 14 years now. <33