I lived a lesbian lifestyle for 7 years. Now in my mid 20's, I no longer desire to be with a woman. I've been having crushes on men and starting to crave a mans company. I don't know what happened but something in me switched like a light bulb. I literally have no attraction for women anymore. When I do meet a guy, I'm scared to tell him I was gay for so long. What if he doesn't take me serious?
Most Helpful Guy
I wouldn't count it against her. It would be a minor point of interest. Like, something to separate her from the average girl. I would take that over another girl with a normal history - all else being equal.
It isn't something you'd need to bring up with a guy if he doesn't ask.0
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Is this a thing? Like, people wanting to play 20 questions about your past? I don't understand. Don't understand how it would come up, and don't understand why anyone would even care.
I've been married for 14 years, and my husband has never asked for the particulars of my "love" life before him (quote marks intentional).
And not because "he feels it isn't his place" or any of that shit. He just doesn't care. Does. Not. Care.
I'm the same way with him.
Girl the moment that man first looked at me... and through me... none of that history even mattered. And on some level, conscious or not, he's confident enough to know that.
We both have plenty of history, LOL. Enough to know what we want, what we need. Our marriage is so fulfilling, and clicks so well, that we make other people sick. Our life is our life.
We look forward, not backward. Because when you look backward, you run into shit and drop your phone. (:
I would suggest that you just not talk about it, unless there is a very, very, VERY good reason.0