I kinda know this guy but I haven't seen him in years but I want to start talking to him, should I straight up message him saying something like "hey how are you? don't know if you remember me or not but" or how should I approach him without seeming weird and is it considered attractive when a girl does that? is that being confident? what should I do?
I need advice, what should I do?
What Guys Said 2
I think it would be confident for you to message him that way, but not weird. I see this type of question from girls on GAG quite a bit. Girls are considering approaching a guy with hopes of romance, but are hesitant.
Only a few weeks ago, I was having a discussion with a woman about music. It was only our second conversation. The conversation had a great flow to it, and she said, "I like this. I like talking to you." I took that as a pretty good hint that she was interested in me, and asked her about exchanging numbers. We did that. Right after that, I asked her out on a date, and she said yes. We went on a great date, and now seem to be on our way as a couple.
As long as you don't approach/message a guy and say something too direct, he should not overreact or think you are acting out of line. It is possible for a girl to strike a balance in approaching guys by being confident, and yet not seeming weird, desperate, or easy at the same time. I think that the line you have in mind is pretty good.
You never know--he might remember you, and would love to hear from you. After all, you remember him.1
What Girls Said 1
Text him hi0
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