It'd be a dream if that happened.
It's not only up to the woman but the man too, it would be a double standard and sometimes yes people do get ahead of themselves.
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It depends on her understanding of the relationship me and her have... if I have sex with you in the first date, I'm not looking to pursue you as a wife... if you can deal with that we can still chill
Why exactly would you say you're not pursuing her as a wife just because you slept together on the first date? Do you have a policy against a serious relationship with someone you slept with early on?
Yes, it's kind of a test with me. The fact that you slept with someone that you don't really even know shows a lot to me about your character, it gives me a good idea on how exclusive you truly are.. and to be honest with you I would not trust you because if you did it with me no telling who you might have done it to the past or after me.
You're testing a woman and judging her by whether she does the EXACT SAME THING AS YOU? Um Ok.
@Sara413 It's a fucked up world isn't it
So what if you do know them, and you just haven't been dating? Say this isn't the first time you've met, and you've been communicating a while, and when you go on a date you sleep with them. Does that change the situation?
Yes it does, I would have built a repor with her and her with me. I still wouldn't be ready to commit but I wouldn't hold the sex against her.
If somebody is sharing their bodies with somebody they hardly know, what does that say about them? as a woman, you will be judged more for it, and with that knowledge, respect yourself more and make them earn you.
Do you think the situation changes if you've known the person for a long time before you went on a date?