This sounds dumb for me to say, but I am obviously all for equal rights for everybody! But this woman mentioned that she was a major feminist. At first I just shrugged it off and honestly didn't care, but now it's definitely showing. She gets mad at me for stating my own opinion, to the point where she is trying to argue with me about it. Is this healthy or should I stay away from her?
Most Helpful Girl
I'm a feminist. I'm all for equality and I certainly think that men should not shy away from dating feminists. We're awesome.
But when someone describes themselves as a "major feminist" it ought to be read as: Female supremacist.
Feminism is a movement to bring women up to the level of men. No further. It's called FEMinism because it's trying to help out the FEMALE gender.
It's odd to me that she wouldn't like you voicing your own opinion. That's oppressive and not healthy. A relationship is an equal give and take - or should be. Both parties should voice their opinions and not be afraid to disagree because they should both be mature enough to disagree and get over it.
She sounds a little... extreme.
I'd leave her.3
Most Helpful Guy
I think you should f*ck her right off.
Getting into relationship with these types of girls are not healthy for you at all. Everything you do and say is just going to turn into an argument.
You will definitely not be sexually compatible either as she WILL definitely make so many things an issue. She'll cry about how she's not getting pleasure, how you deal with handling her etc. basically she might not even get into oral or appeasing you.
Major Feminist? Although that's the word they use, but has a totally different connotation and meaning. Look for someone normal :) so that you can love each other, give and take from each other and negotiations will be no problem.3