I used to think I was a fun, good looking guy with cool hobbies and a good job.
I met this girl, I was on top of the world because I really liked her and she really liked me.
I asked her out, and she said no. Which really broke my heart, I didn't understand why at first but my thinking now is that she is way too good for me.
As I started to get over her, I though I needed to move on, So I made online dating profiles on various sites and decided to go out to meet girls...
Going out to meet girls, most girls didn't really seem too interested in myself, I had no problem doing small talk or actully talking to them, but that was it. I could tell most didn't really like me.
Online rarely do I get a reply to a message I have sent, Girls just don't seem to want to talk to me online or even give me a chance. I thought online dating was supposed to be about getting to know people?
I have my profiles set up pretty good, good pictures, good bio, funny, and I send personalized messages and never a Hey or a What's up?
I just feel like maybe I am not the man who I thought I was... I am 23, can't get a girlfriend,
Maybe I am boring and ugly?
It's really just made me depressed the last few months,
I don't feel like doing anything ( Going to the gym, working on my car, hanging out with family and friends)
Even my job, I hate going to work now...
And I just don't know what to do. I am a failure at life...
Most Helpful Girl
Your not a failure at life. :) Your not the only one who goes through this kind of thing. Don't be so hard on yourself, sometimes it's not the individual's fault but others. Have u ever tried not dating online? Also, What website did u use? It could be the type of website ur using.0
Most Helpful Guy
Online dating is never a good measure of how attractive you are. If you don't believe me, find a photo (or photos) of a semi-attractive girl on the internet and make a profile on one of those things, you'll see literally hundreds of "likes" and messages within the first few hours. There are always hordes of guys competing for one girl, she might never even see your profile because of that.
You're not a fucking failure, if you let yourself think that you're just going to become more and more unattractive, just keep working at shit and women will come around, you're not going to die alone.3