I mean crush wise? Who else gets deep crushes on people really quickly? I do, and I don't know why. I also become attached and clingy easily as well. Does anyone know a possible reason why?
Most Helpful Guy
I fall harder than most. I know exactly why most people do, and it is still beyond difficult to stop. For a multitude of reasons, people idolize love, and subsequently their crush. There are a lot of unknowns when you first meet someone, and people like us can't help but fill in those blanks with our hopes, wants & wishes. It's something that I didn't even realize I did when I was a teenager. I'm only 23 now, but it took me until a couple years ago to realize I was. Even though I know... I still can't stop myself. It's a high-risk, self-sabotaging pattern, but imagine what it will be like when we do find that right person. I think clingy is something different altogether though. Falling hard and acting clingy are two different acts.1
Most Helpful Girl
/raises hand from the back/
it happens to people without a strong sense of self. we're the most easily affected by beauty we see in others, and sometimes it gives us strange actions or feelings. if it's a straight-up obsession, that's called limerence.1