-the way they treat/tip waiters/waitresses -the way they talk to bartenders -the way they talk to/treat small children -the way they talk about something they love -the way they talk about something they hate -what they do/say when they're crying or about to cry -the way their eyes look when sad, mad or happy -the way they smile for different things -the way they laugh at different things -if they hide parts of themselves or if they're more open -if they're shy for something but open for another -the way they talk to me -if they talk shit behind others backs -how they treat animals -how they treat their parents -the way they speak when they're mad -the way they sing along to their favorite song -the way they sleep next to me (if we're cuddling) -what they do when pissed off -if they are sympathetic/empathetic -how they treat/talk to older people -if they respect those different to them
Speak sentences that sound like sentences. Not like questions, with that horrible goddamn awful girly upward inflection at the end. Say things like you actually mean them, not like you need validation of every damn thing you say.
Spell words correctly and write complete sentences. Yes, even in text messages. EVEN IN TEXT MESSAGES.
Smiling a lot, generally seeming happy and comfortable in your own skin, seeming interested in others and making eye contact. And feeling attractive without being arrogant about it. Those are the changes that ended my invisibility.
Wear a suit. Make your hair, nails, eyebrows and skin look good. Only wear facial hair if you suit it. Try to learn about things, as knowledge makes you interesting. Above all, though, to be attractive to women is to be confident around women. Treat every woman you're gaming like a sure thing, imagine she already agreed to fuck you and this part is just a formality. Makes it so much easier.