Sounds like a huge personality flaw he had, which makes him not a perfect man. I say, you dodged a bullet, but I understand how you feel. It is not you, it is him. I met a guy like that too. We went out a little, but he didn't invest himself. I felt terrible, but it was his problem not mine. He missed out on what I had to give.
I was in a similar situation for a year and a half til he met his girlfriend and cheated on her with me (complicated) And hun its hard but date other people. Force yourself out there. Have fun with other people and make new friends. Throw yourself into work. Just keep busy. Then when you meet the right person it won't matter anymore. i mean mine came back last week, a year after it all happened to apologise how he acted. He says he's happy I've found someone and that he's happy with his girlfriend then brings up the past. I never thought id get to the point im ok with it but i am. You will too.
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