So before you come to any conclusions, my girlfriend doesn't really like pictures in general on instagram. She very rarely likes any pictures and I know this because I check my following tab quite often to see all of my follower's activity and never see her in it. I've seen her like several guys pictures but never really said anything to her until tonight; when I saw she liked some random guys picture on instagram of just a picture of him in the mirror.
So I brought it up to her calmly and said hey you know this kind of bothers me, and she called me inmature, petty and that telling her it bothered me it was unattractive. I replied with something like "Not really sure why you are talking to me that way; I think it's disrespectful that you are disregarding what bothers me. Even when I bring it up to you in a mature manner and talk to you about it without even being upset about anything." She apologized after we talked for a few more minutes. She told me he was dating one of her friend's little sisters.
I'm not the type of guy that just stalks my girlfriend, but if I see something that is suspicious I check it out. Turns out that this guy is actually the same age as my girlfriend and I; has no pictures of any significant other has relationship status on single on facebook, and has liked every single picture that my girlfriend has uploaded to instagram. She liked a few of his as well that I didn't see until I checked things out. You guys can call me crazy all you want but honestly I just am terrified of being played a fool.
I have caught my girlfriend talking to another guy while we were dating in the past and we squashed that and moved forward. She seems sincere with everything she is saying but her bestfriend has cheated on her boyfriend of 6 years on a daily basis; which is definitely something to consider.
I trust my girlfriend at this point in time, I really do. But what do you guys think? Do I have anything to really worry about here?
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I think it's kinda in the middle, she could just genuinely be liking other pictures if she knows them, however most know they usually like guys pictures to get their attention if infact it's not her friends sister boyfriend etc. She could be telling the truth, or she just may want extra attention from someone else as excitement.1
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