If you are developing feelings for a work colleague you can't have feelings for and use another girl to distract yourself, is that OK?

  • Yes it's fine as long as she doesn't have feelings for you
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  • Yes it's fine
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  • No it's never fine to do that if you don't like her
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What Girls Said 1

  • I mean it's okay to have a distraction, but don't make the new girl one at your own expense without actually liking her and pretending you do. It's okay to seek out other people and see if you have chemistry with them.


What Guys Said 1

  • Never fine if you don't like her.

    You're abusing a person's feelings to benefit your own, that is not right.

    • But if she doesn't like me, how is it abusing her feelings? She has none for me.

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    • Why does it matter if she doesn't have feelings for me.

    • Sigh... :/