I stayed at this guys house last night that I've been on two dates with. He asked me to come out there so I drove the two hours. When I got there all we did was sit on the couch across from each other and watched his favourite TV show. We barely talked and he set my bed up in another room, he did offer to sleep on the couch while i slept in his bed but still didn't want to sleep in the same bed as me. We talked a little during the show but not much. Then before bed he didn't even say good night and just showed me the bathroom. The next morning he started to watch tv again and we hardly talked until we went to get breakfast. Then before I left he didn't hug me or nothing or even walk me to my car. I don't understand, he's nice but he didn't touch me at all. Am I doing something wrong?
It sounds like he is a very shy guy who isn't comfortable pushing boundaries, and doesn't want to risk making you feel uncomfortable. It isn't that you're doing anything wrong necessarily, but if you want the relationship to progress physically, you may need to take the lead and initiate some physical contact, at least until he gets the idea that you're comfortable with it.
For the record, I'm exactly that kind of guy who doesn't like to push boundaries, but once they're gone, all bets are off.
I think he's nervous. Not that he's afraid of you, he's probably just not sure of his boundaries and is afraid to do something wrong. If you start setting boundaries (such as getting close to him or putting your hand near his) then maybe he'll start to see what you want. If he's really not catching on you could always talk to him about it and make things a bit more easier to understand.
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