All the best marriages I know -- "best" as in most harmonious, most efficient, least quarrelsome, bla bla bla -- have age differences of 5 to 14 years, with the guy being the older one. So you are RIGHT SMACK in the middle of that. Smack dab.
Of course that's marriages. Serious hardcore long term. LOL.
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Girls I've talked to have said they find guys like that creepy. I personally wouldn't do it. Like others have said it's a maturity thing so if the guy is a little behind for his age and she's a little ahead for her age then sure it might work. She's probably not going to bring him around her family anytime soon...
If they wanna be together I don't see why it would be.
She may be more immature than you'd prefer once the lust factor has worn off. Think of how much your life has grown since you were 18. It's very unfair to expect her to be in the same place mentally, so approach this with caution.
sure it's okay. she's legal... if you both have the same interests and she's mature enough for you, go for it. 9 years isn't that much... not it seams like a big difference but with every year it will get less important. my dad is 10 years older than my mom and it worked perfectly fine too.
It's alright. But the problem is not the age itself rather the mental maturity. It's hard finding girls under 20 years old to be mature enough for a relationship, but I guess dating and trying things out would be fine.