We're in a ldr. Yesterday morning my boyfriend texted me saying hey. I was a little shocked as he no longer ever texts first unless I do. So anyways I replied back and after a few hours he asked me 'how r uu?' which is also odd as he no longer even asks me how I am. Anyways I replied saying that I have the flu but I'm otherwise well and I asked how he was. He read the text a whole 12 hours later and didn't bother to reply. He says he loves me and he cares for me but yesterday didn't show that for me. I don't understand why he even bothered to text me if he didn't wanna talk to me. I always bring it up to him that I feel lonely and then he'll fix up for a while coz I say I'm leaving and then he'll reassure me I'm not lonely and then slowly goes back to his old ways. I just feel hurt ik its the flu but he didn't even ask how I'm feeling etc.
I feel like he doesn't care?
What Guys Said 1
LDR is never easy, but it doesn't seem like he's making the same efforts as you are in this relationship you guys have.0
What Girls Said 1
If you've tried to bring this problem up before this may be your sign. I just asked a question, and the comments said what I was always feeling in my gut. I think you kind of know exactly why it's not OK for him to treat you that way. My personal opinion is to try to voice the problem up front and honest (men seem to respond better when you put it all out on the table, don't sugarcoat it just say what the problem is) and if you see this pattern again then you have your answer. Walk like a duck, look like a duck... yeahhh lol you get it.
Hope this helped.0
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