So I was dating this girl for about 2 months. We texted almost nonstop for two months and saw each other at least 1-2 times a week, sometimes 3. We kissed and I spent the night and everything but she got cheated on the same time I did by her ex which was about 3 months before we met each other. I didn't try to have sex with her yet because I wanted to actually know her and not just make the whole relationship physical [I was going to when we were supposed to go on a date and I was going to spend the night but she cancelled due to what I'll describe next]
We weren't "a thing" yet but she and I were nonstop seeing or talking to each other. I planned a date for a Saturday and she cancelled last minute. I said okay no problem, scheduled another one for the next week, and she cancelled again. I told her to pick a date this time and she said the following Saturday. Last minute she cancelled again. I asked her what was up and didn't hear back from her and she had been short replying for about a week prior. Then I saw that she was in a relationship with some guy she knew from high school. She never texted me and said bye or anything so I don't know why she took off. It's really bugging me because I want to know if I did something wrong so I can fix it for future relationships. I don't care that she left so much as I just don't want to screw up in the future. Would it matter if I texted her and asked that? If she doesn't respond or anything I could care less but if it's something important I want to know.
I could be overthinking this too lol...
- Yes, just send it60% (3)100% (2)71% (5)Vote
- No just leave it40% (2)0% (0)29% (2)Vote