I notice a lot of people bring up the two about themselves often, but few people actually seem to ever mention a preference for either. I'm curious if it makes any real difference to you and why it would be better or worse to your relationship
I consider myself outgoing and I like both types... but I prefer more outgoing girls, because it's really easy to start and keep a conversation going.
With shy girls, when you're getting to know them I notice the answers they give are really brief, which makes me think that they're not having fun or are not interested. However, once they're more comfortable then I barely even notice that they're shy at that point lol
I used to think I only like outgoing guys because I'm shy and it compliments my disposition but I had the biggest crush on a shy guy a year ago and have re-thought my stance. Thinking about it, two of my best friends are fairly quiet and reserved so I think either works fine for me. It's more what we have in common and attraction.
I am a very out going person so I'd prefer to date someone who is just as out going as me. It can be a lot more fun, adventurous, and bring new experiences. It also has cons as well as pros but so does dating someone shy.
Shy. If they just had the courage to ask me out they'd be perfect. It's like the one drawback to all the guys I've been attracted to is that they were too afraid to approach. Unfortunately the guys who have no problems approaching me aren't anything what I look for in a guy.