Going full beta with this question bros sorry if I'm disappointing my followers. All trolling aside..
Feel like sometimes I need a woman in my life sometimes to keep me well rounded. Single I'm a prick. it's not much help that all my bros are even bigger assholes and sleep around more than me. Every weekend I get invited to go out and they slay every weekend. I rarely go out anymore. Went to the club for the first time in a while on new years eve.
In a relationship I'm more down to earth. Balances my masculine side and my femine side. Makes me more of a pleasant person. Anyone share feels like this?
Don't get me wrong.. I enjoy being single and I'm completley content being single. It has a lot of perks but that is something I definitley miss about being in a relationship.
Women will still love you even if you show your beta side for a bit... all 2 inches of ya Some guys need that shit. I imagine it stems from the lack of empathy for themselves. Take you for example in the marines they tear you down and build you back up to be unstoppable. However it does translate to your fem. or emotional side. You can always work on it sure. But I don't think you as you are now want to slow down just yet. I hear though that all men get to a point in their lives where something changes them for better, or worse its all up to you to make that decision. Or which path is most beneficial to what you want out of life.
That's totally normal and natural to change behavior because of someone you love. I think it's pretty sweet actually and girls go through it too. And I don't think it's in anyway beta. You can still be in a relationship and be the toughest guy around. Just tough and mature instead of tough and a selfish prick. 😉
sleeping around doesn't make you a prick though. but yea, having a person to calm you down a bit is nice. Plus acting all alpha and tough all the time I think it s good to have a so, for which you can show your vulnerable side and let go. putting the alpha/big boss aside, I guess we all have a vulnerable and sensitive sides :P agh... the feels you made all sweet and beta now xD
that was so cute... *_* i didn't know guys felt that way lol awwwh
I do think relationships balance people out better. That's why people say "my other half" or "my better half."
Guys tend to toughen their women up a bit and make them feel pretty and more confident. Women do soften their guys and make them a bit more sensitive (in a good way of course).
And I definitely think that guys benefit from having a woman nurture them. Keeping them grounded, helping them make decisions, stuff like that (and who doesn't want a sexy woman pining after them that thinks they walk on water?)
I do crave intimacy and companionship sometimes but I definitely enjoy being single and it'll take someone awesome to change my status. I'll just keep working on myself in the meantime so I can be a better girlfriend when the time comes 😌
You do you though. Don't let the bros drag you down 👌🏼
Ya man. I'm usually pretty sarcastic and say whatever I want, however mean it might be, but when a girl I actually care about comes along I cram the act and turn into a sissy little bitch incapable of saying anything mean to her, especially if she feels something for me too. Don't get me wrong, I'll still tease her but my tongue becomes a lot less sharp, and I'll actually care about what she has to say.
It's almost like the right woman is the sweet, sweet music that tames my inner douchey beast. The second she leaves though, that douche comes right back with a raging vengeance.
No, that's pretty stupid since I don't need a woman to handle my actions/behavior. And what's with the "feminine side" thing? I don't hear girls saying they need to enforce a "masculine" side. There's no such thing to enforce, other than knowledge and understanding of the opposite gender, for your own good.