I have always been a firm believer that you have to fancy someone from the get go and chemistry is something that you instantly feel. However, all of the guys I have felt this with have been not very nice guys and it's never worked.
i have a date tomorrow with a guy that I get on with but I'm not sure I fancy him in that way yet. He's nice enough and he is good looking but I'm just not sure I'm attracted to him. Can chemistry/ attraction develop over time? Or is it an instant thing?
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lol, i thought you meant the subject. it can be built over time i guess. i know many people who rejected a dude or girl for a long time and then even got married. or they fight, but date and love each other (at least they don't break up).0
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The best relationship of my life has come from a man I wasn't initially "swept away" by, looks wise that is. I didn't see him and immediately think, "damn." Like yeah he was aesthetic, but I was in a relationship so I didn't think too much.
After I had broken up with my boyfriend at the time and gotten together with my current boyfriend (the best relationship that I've ever ever had) and it took about 2 months before I just sat back and realized, holy fuck, this is the most attractive man I have ever seen. 😍 to this day, he makes me fucking melt.0