When we got together, he told me he used to fall for girls who were bad news (trust me, they were all kinds of crazy). Through meeting me, he decided he wanted change and to be with a 'nice girl'. And so, we gave it a shot.
Anyway, he'd always swear against getting back with any of these kinda girls ever again. And genuinely, I took his word. Either way, we ended up splitting.
Since then, he's fluctuated in interested between two girls who appear to be bad news.
The first is covered in tattoos and piercings. Every second word is a swear word, she's completely fake looking, no social graces, lacks feminist and is a major slut who has a habit of sleeping around. Recently, he's been paying her quite a bit of attention.
Then there's the second girl who still lives in the 'emo era'. She's 26, still got a silly nose ring, lip piercing and got horrid tattoos everywhere. She also had a baby when she was 18 and has had more boyfriends than hot dinners since giving birth. Most weekends are spent drunken while the kid is shipped of to his dad's. Not only that, but she had a video of herself online as a cam girl.
Either way, these are EXACTLY the type of girls who have caused him pain in the past. I just don't get why on earth he'd be rebounding with one of these kinds of people?
I ask this question because I'm genuinely worried for his wellbeing :/
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Some people just have a certain "type" that no matter what, they always seem to gravitate towards. It could be the people he meets through his own social circle that he has created for himself. If he hasn't put himself in a position to meet different types of women, then that's probably why.
Ultimately though, you aren't with him anymore so I don't think you have any place to be too concerned with who he is seeing now. I'm not saying that to be rude so I hope you don't take it that way. I'm just saying that he's going to be with whoever he wants to be with and you two are no longer together so there's really no point in you worrying about who he chooses to spend his time with. If you two are still on good terms then you can, of course, express your concerns if they are genuine but I doubt it will really change his mind.1