Yes I know I'm probably being silly and I would never ask him to give up any of his friends. But secretly its on my mind and its starting to upset me. We only started dating and its being going amazing but his close to this one girl and it bothers me so much. She's constantly what looks like to me as flirting on all his photos and stuff its just getting at me. Like how do you deal with this in a reasonable way?
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It's okay to have FRIENDS of the opposite gender when in a relationship, BUT those friendships have to be kept in check. Period. No low-key flirting or touching or anything. You can't treat friends of the opposite gender the same way you can treat same sex friends either. You have to keep the friendship more at a distance, nothing too close or personal.
Just explain to your boyfriend that you're okay with him having girl friends but not with him having CLOSE girl friends, like, having a "female best friend" is a no no, your GIRLFRIEND is supposed to be your female best friend.1