If a girl , that you are seeing and/or like, responds to your (facebook) messages immediately, would you think she is clingy?
Or would you prefer her to seen-zone you and respond to your messages later?
Since last week, I am seeing a guy (he used to go to my high school, last time I saw him was 5 years ago). He lives in a different city, and he said he would stay in touch with me. When he sends me a message, I respond immediately, but it takes him hours to respond to mine. Am I being clingy? Should I also responds hours later to his messages as well?
- Yes, responding to his messages immediately is clingy8% (1)10% (2)9% (3)Vote
- No, it's not clingy.77% (10)80% (16)79% (26)Vote
- Other (comment)15% (2)10% (2)12% (4)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
I would just think they have nothing else going on and can respond quickly. Also I like it that way. But that's my personality on that. I prefer to have things done in a timely matter. Work, conversations, etc.2
Most Helpful Girl
I dont find it clingy but I have the same problem. When Im talking to someone I like, Im so excited that I get all speedy when texting. Deep down i get impatient if they dont reply on time, but I dont let them know that. But when i talk to a guy who replies just like *snaps* that, I dont even know how to react! I love it because I feel that he's just as excited to talk to me too :)1