I'm 15 and a freshman in highschool and he's 13 in 7th grade We met last summer, been really good friends for awhile, and we've kissed (He was my first kiss) He wants to date me and I want to date him but I always thought the age difference was weird and we wouldn't get to see each other too often but I decided I'd ask Do you think that is it too big of an age difference and it would be too weird to date him?
- Yes That is weird Move onVote A
- No Go for it Date himVote B
Most Helpful Girl
Okay... I got you. Hi.
I was in your shoes once. My boyfriend is 20. I am 22. I will be 23 before he turns 21.
I met him when I was 14 and he was 12. We also wanted to date when I was 15 and he was 13... and that was the WORST decision ever haha
We were too young. Too immature. Too sheltered.
You can't drive. You can't pay for dates. You can't get into decent movies. You think his parents are going to warm right up to you dating their son? No. They're not. They'll view you as a predator.
13 is too young. 15 is too young.
18 and 16 is much better.
22 and 20 is even better.
30 and 28 is even better.
The age gap isn't a big deal... except at your age. It gets less of a big deal as you age.
He is NOT mature enough for a relationship. TRUST me. He's not. If it's meant to be, it'll be meant to be in a couple years when life will be more on your side.1