There is a girl I like at my work. She has everything I am looking for in a girlfirend. Everything from looks (I know looks don't matter) all the way to personality and even has a "dirty mind". We have things in common. Well the issue is she's got a "BF". Even though she says he's an a hole and a psycho. Also from what I gather he doesn't care about her. My co workers keep bugging me to go after her. I am a realistic. Realistically speaking I doubt she likes me. Even though I've seen signs to prove other wise. I am not that guy who thinks ever girl wants me. Never been that way. But how do I be more optimistic that maybe she could like me. I've had this problem with other girls as well.
How to be more optimistic with girls?
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Bro don't lie... men are visual creatures. Looks matters...
Build up the courage to ask her out on a friendly date. It doesn't need to be flat out in a 5☆ restaurant. Keep it casual.
1. She isn't married so a friendly date is harmless.
2. No sane and happy woman wants to be in an abusive relationship.
4. Be yourself. She's a coworker so she may have asked around secretively what kind of a man you are.
5. Tell her that you're into her. Don't play mind fuck games. Man up. She already threw you some bread crumbs.
Good luck 😆0
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