I have anxiety and today I am going to tell the guy I like that I have feelings for him. I know he wants to date me because he told my friend he does (she showed me the messages) and I am extremely nervous. Usually people only tell me they like me online- cause generally people online are the only ones who want to date me.
Most Helpful Guy
First of all he is probably as anxious as you are about discussing your mutual feelings. Online personalities are strange some escape into a somewhat false personality while others and I think I am right in saying this includes you feel a disconnect from their anxieties and insecurities in real life begin to portray more of their true selves.
I have a very simple tip for social anxiety there are people in this world who are close to me who think I am amazing and even over the years people have developed romantic feelings for me (my personal theory for that one is a comic book nuclear accident that affects otherwise normal people).
So taking my logic forward if people want to date you online and I think that is closer to your real personality that bodes well for the you in real life just let more of your true self out.
Anyway I think you are an amazing young girl who is really pretty and with a nod to your take yesterday, I have a gut feeling the odds are in your favour with this guy. Good luck but I don't think you need it.1
Most Helpful Girl
This is waaaayy outside my element, but, if anything I'd think the jitters would just make you seem more cute/appealing.0