Why are Indian men so obsessed with white men and women? It's as if you aspire to achieve something unattainable because you find white people to be far superior. Of course not all Indian men think this way, but it's what I've seen from the majority on gag. Stop obsessing over white people and white culture. Learn to be happy with yourself and others like you. Truth is, if any person can be "won over" by someone other than their spouse, that person is a low life piece of trash. Why on earth would you want a partner who'll toss you out at any moment because she believe she's found someone who can raise her social status? White people are no more special or valuable than anyone else on the planet. They are the exact equivalent to blacks, Hispanics, Asians, and any other race of person. Get over your self hatred and stop caring about what white people think.
Wouldn't recommend trying to win a married women over. What does that make you? Besides, stop obsessing over white women like they're some prize! They're normal women like everyone else! Treat them like people. Some white women will like you, some won't. That mentality is just not healthy though. Chill out!