The makeup discussion here on gag is a very much alive one with a lot of guys who say that they don't want to date a girl with makeup.
But what if it makes her feel really confident?
So would you date a girl who has a insecure posture all the time, asks constantly if she looks alright, is shy and has little self-worth.
Or would you date a girl who wear some makeup everyday if she leaves the house and is fully confident about herself.
Now everyone will ask, how much are we talking about? I would say a fair amount like this:
So face makeup, mascara, lipgloss, eyeliner and or eyeshadow in natural colour, shaped eyebrows. Just a fair amount of everyday makeup.
- No makeup16% (9)32% (18)23% (27)Vote
- Makeup45% (26)47% (27)46% (53)Vote
- See results39% (23)21% (12)31% (35)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
Though I prefer no makeup, I'd rather have a confident girl than an insecure one, cause she's probably gonna cause more problems in the relationship.
But when I say makeup, I mean a little, I still wanna feel attracted to her when she takes it off.2
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly, the whole point of this is pretty dumb... generally insecure girls wear makeup BECAUSE they are insecure and it makes them feel better (and there are the girls that just like makeup, of course, with a perfectly normal sense of security).
While it's possible that a girl with low self-esteem will go without makeup, it's not very likely. Normally the people that are inherently confident with themselves will feel like they don't need it, or at least won't have such a low sense of it that they will constantly ask how they look and be annoying about it. Whereas the girls that feel insecure will coat makeup on until they don't see anything wrong with their face. I just feel like the second option is more of a sign that a girl is insecure than the first one. The first girl would have to have some sense of confidence in order to feel comfortable enough to not wear makeup.
Personally, I am really insecure about my eyelashes, because they are really blonde and you can barely see them (same for my eyebrows but I don't care as much for them), and it makes my eyes look really weird. So I use mascara to make my eyes look normal. That's the only makeup I wear, though, since I'm not insecure about my actual face. If I didn't have blonde eyelashes I wouldn't feel insecure.
With that said, there's a lot of times where I'll leave the house without it, and I don't feel so insecure that I'm annoying about it and constantly asking how I look. In fact, I normally even forget about it. So I guess my self-esteem can't be too low. I wouldn't call myself confident, either, moreso in the middle.0