I went out to balzac's with a guy i know earlier in the week. We drank coffee and the conversation was was flowing constantly throughout the night. We headed back to my house after an hour or so where he was going to drop me off. After he pulled into my driveway i thanked him for a fun night and began to open the door when he said "hey wait a sec, come here" and he pulled me into what i thought was a hug. after a decently long hug he grabbed my face and started kissing me. Within 2 seconds his tongue was trying to make its way into my mouth and i felt uncomfortable so i pulled away and said without thinking 'k wait, let me get to know you better before we start doing this" and i hugged him again, said good bye and left. I later texted him saying "thanks again for a great night tonight it was a lot of fun, and sorry about what happened in the car i just wasn't expecting it" and I haven't received a response. What should i be thinking? Did i do something wrong?
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I don't think you did anything wrong. If you gave him the wrong impression earlier in the night (say if you flirted really hard, or made sexual jokes) that it can go further, maybe he just took the hints wrong or you might need to tone it down.
The text was good though. If he can't accept the fact that you just don't want things to go so fast, then maybe he's not the right one for you.0
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