I'm a 14-year-old girl who was asked out by this senior who used to go to my school. I have had a crush on him since I was in sixth grade and literally when this happened 6th-grade me died. I know that he is a senior, but is it possible he isn't just using me? I don't know this is really hard to figure out and I can't talk to my friends about it because they're very, very jealous of the situation, I also can't really talk to my mom about this because if I do want to get to know him better I don't really want her to know about his drug habits! I would love any guidance I could get :)
First of all, if you're 14 and he's 18, then it many states it would be illegal for him to do anything sexual with you. Secondly, if he's a senior he's probably going to go to college next year. A relationship is not going to last. If you'd like to give it a chance you can, but please be extra careful because it sounds like he's just using you.
I think it's fine for a senior and a freshman to date, as long as you're cautious.
The part that I'm worried about is his drug habits. What type of drugs? If it's just Marijuana, it's not that bad, but if it's any harder stuff I would suggest staying away. Addiction is not a path that you want to go down.