so a girl i'm chatting with comments, "i'm ready to find someone to be in a relationship with" and i know she didn't mean it bad, but i thought, "jeez, what, were you a slut all the years past having casual sex, but actually having a relationship is a big step you're ready for now?"
anyone else hear little disturbing things like that? or am i reading way too much into it?
Um. Has it ever crossed your mind that she went through a bad break up? Or that she has been too busy focusing on other things in her life like education/her career? Or that she simply didn't feel ready emotionally for a relationship? To assume that this girl has only had casual sex is very judgmental of you, she could very well be inexperienced or have very little experience in general. Seems to me like you just have an extremely negative mindset and would blindly bash anyone because you refuse to have an open mind.