I dont have many experiences but I worry about who I'm going to fall in love with and who I want to be in a relationship with. i just can't seem to find the right guy. I've thought about it.. LIke why does it seem to never work out or how i always find a reason why I shouldn't date this person. So i thought that it's because i haven't found the right guy and I know he's out there somewhere... I just want to fall in love with a guy who will feel the exact same way for me and I wouldn't want to be with anyone else. I crave for passionate love. Meanwhile, girls around my age have already started dating and they just date anyone they like.. then there's me and I don't date them even if i liked him back..
DO you think i should change my perspectives on relationships?
- Yes. you need to go through the wrong guys to get to the right guy. It's worth a tryVote A
- No. You should keep looking for the right guy. He's out thereVote B
Most Helpful Guy
I didn't vote because I feel kinda in the middle about this. Maybe if you both like each other you should try it. My best friend just dated this girl in high school and now their married and I have barley seen a happier couple. But then again. I'm kinda the same way about wanting to find the right person. I think it's just a teenage thing. You obviously don't need to date someone just to have a boyfriend, but don't be afraid to try I'd you think it can go somewhere. You will never just see a guy and go. Yep that's him. That's definitely the one I've been waiting for. I'm sure glad I'm not in a relationship. You gotta date the people to find out...0
Most Helpful Girl
It may not have worked out just yet because you haven't found the right you first.
I think you should adjust your perspective, not change it entirely but tweak it a bit. It's great that you have no desire to waste your time on the wrong guys. That means you know what you want and have no interest in settling for any less. That's an attitude you should keep for the rest of your life because it will guard your heart and spirit from relationship/romance related nonsense. However, it's better not to look for this guy and let him come to you. Let the two of you find each other and in the mean time, fall in love with life. Relationships are always more fulfilling when you have fallen in love with life first. Be so passionate about life that it takes a certain type of man to catch your attention. Enjoy your youth before you do fall deeply in love because it will change life as you know it.1