just asking do you think me and my boyfriend will work out we dont never argue or fight we have mature talks and he treats me like a lady even though im only 16 should i stay with him or find a boy my own age i hear that older and young relationships dont work what do you think?😶
Hello. My honest opinion is it all depends on what's going on. Such as are you two sexually active. How many times weekly or monthly and if he's trying new things. (And no I am no perv I would just like to know the situation before a full answer.)
You're clearly more mature. I was like that, still am. Whether it works out or not, it's solely up to you two. Prefer my guys olderish.. Maybe you'll change. Like I said, this relationship is up to you two, so make the best of it. Live your life ☺️☺️❤️
sorry but i think he is to old for you, maybe if you were 21 and he was 31 that might work... not only is he to old for you, but you are to young for him.. if he wants to get married and have kids, id probably say he would be wanting that within the next 5 years, in which case you'll be 21, you really wanna end your life at 21? lol... but seriously, you may or may not wanna travel, and if you do, you'll probably wanna build a career and have some sorta life before settling down, all of which he will want to do way before you are likely to be ready for it. I'd let him go, tell him i said sorry lol.
I'm sure this isn't what you want to hear but in my opinion a 16 year old and a 31 year old is a bit inappropriate. I mean, without knowing about your relationship I can't say whether it'll last but it's maybe worth asking yourself what's wrong with him that he can't find someone closer to his age, because it definitely crosses the line into creepy
hmm it depends on the country. in the US its 18 in Canada its 16 the list goes on but I don't know about anywhere else any ways i would consider him to be wayyyyyyy fuckin old. I would suggest evaluate what made you make this choice and improve on your next choice of man. There are guys who treat girls exactly the same at your age compared to a 31 year old man. I would consider it pedophilia.
Wait what? 31 years old dating a 16 years old? What could he possibly be attracted to in a 16 years old? No offense. I'm 23 and I'm iffy about girls that are 18 or 19. Your "relationship" has pedophilia written all over it. I understand how some girls during puberty get attracted to older men with more masculine traits, so, it's just a phase that will pass in your case. But for his case, I honestly don't know what exactly is going on... he's almost double your age.
Why would a 31 year old want to be with someone who is 16? You are still in highschool. The who situation seems creepy to me. You should break up with him as soon as possible because only 31 year old creep would go for a teenager. I would suggest for you to date someone close to your age at this point in your life.
I don't know where you live, so I can't speak to the legality of the relationship. But in general, an age gap of that difference, especially at your age, is not a good idea. That's not to say it couldn't work out, it's just not likely to.
We're all going to be saying no here you know. Sure, you could potentially work out, every once in a blue moon I suppose it does. But it isn't likely at all and any man who asks you to hide the fact that you're seeing each other from your parents is just a lets dump him and move on type of guy.
I don't see what any business you have to do with a 31 year old man, or what you have that someone around his age or even the legal age doesn't. I think you should find a man your own age solely because you're still learning about yourself, you're still going through all these experiences as a young tell and you deserve to live through every one of them.
I'm not sure what country you're in, but your relationship is illegal, and I'm sorry, but your boyfriend would be considered a pedophile in most places. I once had a boyfriend that was four years older than me, and it didn't work out. You're still a child, and by the time you reach adulthood you'll want two different things. On top of that, I can't imagine what a 31 year old would have in common with a 16 year old, and if he has anything in common with you, he's a very very strange 31 year old you probably shouldn't associate yourself with.
That's what I call psychological issues. That's also what I call... pedophile alert. I don't even understand why you're asking this question. If you have to ask for a strangers opinion on this, then I think you already know the answer.
Well, depending on where you are located, that might be illegal. But other than that, nobody can really tell whether or not you'll work out for sure. Honestly, any relationship with a teenager is likely to not last, but that doesn't mean it won't.
You don't argue at all? Every true relationship has to have fights or arguments sometimes. What does a 31 year old man exactly want from a 16 year old anyway? If not sex then what? Be cautious. I'd leave the relationship asap.
Sounds like your on to a winner. Don't listen to all the nay sayers. Im 16 and have been with my boyfriend who just turned 32 for the last two years and its been great. We just got married and are expecting a baby. So yes it can work out.